KISS MY FAT A**

Once upon a time, an average sized girl who is my best friend pop out of the dresser in a shopping mall trying on a white dress asking, “Do I look fat?”
How does one defines fat? . Though the insecurites associated to weight problems are diverse beyond description – this insecurities knows no bounds of culture, color, walks of life (although theres some cultures in some other part of the world thinks fat is beautiful_lets look it from a smaller scale for now) – there is a stereotypical set of thinking that the world often uses to define a beautiful body. And for better or worse, that look consists of small waist, small thighs or long legs , not to mention the  roundness of you know what..
For me, the real question is: What’s so wrong with looking fat? If looking fat is so bad, it must be because we secretly believe that being fat is bad? Is this belief really an expression of our own self loathing? some don’t worry that smoking might make them look like a whore, or putting on so much make up makes them look like  cheap sluts. Why, then, worry that our weight isnt right according to our BMI reading?
Though we say that we should embrace our body,love our curves , it’s no secret that a number of self-centered people still  discriminate us and believe that we need to shed the weight off. Though we may not share their convictions, we do see and interact with these people in our everyday life – and not doubt, the fatest among us are the recipients of dirty looks and unwanted comments. It takes broad shoulders and some deep self-love to be able to shrug off that type of undesired attention.
And so sometimes it’s easier to trade in the white dress  for a black one. It’s easier to go under the radar than above it.
Do you look fat? In my humble opinion, you should be so lucky to be blessed with a body that serves your needs and you shouldnt worry what people think about you because somehow, theres always someone (if not everyone) is made to love you for what you really are.and for the haters, you can tell them KISS MY FAT A**